Tuesday, October 31, 2023

The Joy of Picking Up Other People’s Trash

The Joy of Picking Up Other People’s Trash
When my neighborhood changed around me, I decided to change it.
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Monday, October 30, 2023

Sigrid Nunez’s Art of Noticing

Sigrid Nunez’s Art of Noticing
The National Book Award winner smuggles profound reflections on pain and loss into novels of deceptive lightness.
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Sunday, October 29, 2023

Marina Abramovic Thinks the Pain of Love Is Hell on Earth

Marina Abramovic Thinks the Pain of Love Is Hell on Earth
“I don’t see any good art made out of happiness,” says the legendary performance artist.
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Saturday, October 28, 2023

Is It OK to Hire a Surrogate to Bear Twins?

Is It OK to Hire a Surrogate to Bear Twins?
The magazine’s Ethicist columnist on the financial realities of family planning.
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Thursday, October 26, 2023

Poem: Suddenly, Last Summer

Poem: Suddenly, Last Summer
Developing, through ecstatic repetition, a theology of lostness.
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Wednesday, October 25, 2023

My Son Poses a Threat to My Safety. Should I Evict Him?

My Son Poses a Threat to My Safety. Should I Evict Him?
The magazine’s Ethicist columnist on whether parental responsibility should outweigh a person’s well-being.
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Why ‘The Golden Bachelor’ Terrifies Me

Why ‘The Golden Bachelor’ Terrifies Me
Television celebrates older people — but only for seeming like sexy young ones.
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A Luxurious Squash and Lamb Stew for the Holidays

A Luxurious Squash and Lamb Stew for the Holidays
This earthy-sweet Nigerian dish is worthy of occasion.
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Tuesday, October 24, 2023

Stop, Before You Close This Tab (or Any Others) …

Stop, Before You Close This Tab (or Any Others) …
Think of your browser like an ongoing autobiography. Why would you ever delete it?
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Sunday, October 22, 2023

A Hospice Nurse on Embracing the Grace of Dying

A Hospice Nurse on Embracing the Grace of Dying
Hadley Vlahos​, TikTok star and best-selling author​, wants us to let go of our fighting words​ about death.
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Saturday, October 21, 2023

How Climate Change Is Changing Therapy

How Climate Change Is Changing Therapy
How anxiety about the planet’s future is transforming the practice of psychotherapy.
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Friday, October 20, 2023

What Are Your Obligations When Your Dog Impregnates Another One?

What Are Your Obligations When Your Dog Impregnates Another One?
The magazine’s Ethicist columnist on the unplanned consequences of pet ownership.
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Thursday, October 19, 2023

Poem: From … AGAIN

Poem: From … AGAIN
The schoolchild innocence of the alphabet is juxtaposed with the violence and instability of the historical moment.
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Wednesday, October 18, 2023

My Sister Hid $5,000 From Me, Then Her Husband Died. Do I Ask for the Money?

My Sister Hid $5,000 From Me, Then Her Husband Died. Do I Ask for the Money?
The magazine’s Ethicist columnist on whether extenuating circumstances should outweigh a reasonable request.
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The Landlords of Social Media Seem Happy to Play the Villain

The Landlords of Social Media Seem Happy to Play the Villain
Why are property owners on social media crowing about the least lovable parts of their job?
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Tuesday, October 17, 2023

How Mahjong Brought Me Closer to My Mother

How Mahjong Brought Me Closer to My Mother
A game that bridges continents and generations.
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Longer Commutes, Shorter Lives: The Costs of Not Investing in America

Longer Commutes, Shorter Lives: The Costs of Not Investing in America
For decades, spending on the future put the nation ahead of all others. What would it take to revive that spirit?
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Monday, October 16, 2023

I’m an American Living Abroad Permanently. Should I Vote in U.S. Elections?

I’m an American Living Abroad Permanently. Should I Vote in U.S. Elections?
The magazine’s Ethicist columnist on the implications of casting a ballot in a country you have no plans to return to.
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Saturday, October 14, 2023

My Wife Once Agreed To an Open Relationship. Can I Hold Her to It?

My Wife Once Agreed To an Open Relationship. Can I Hold Her to It?
The magazine’s Ethicist columnist on the pressures of romantic promises and the shifting terms of a marriage.
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Friday, October 13, 2023

Judge John Hodgman on the Soup Debate

Judge John Hodgman on the Soup Debate
Is it dinner?
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Thursday, October 12, 2023

This Is Not a Taylor Swift Profile

This Is Not a Taylor Swift Profile
The pop megastar’s greatest gift is for telling her own story — better than any journalist could.
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Wednesday, October 11, 2023

Can Usher Turn America On Again (to R.&B.)?

Can Usher Turn America On Again (to R.&B.)?
Almost 20 years after his sexy, best-selling album “Confessions,” Usher is back with new music that could redefine the whole genre.
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Why People Love to Watch Influencers Get Punched In the Face

Why People Love to Watch Influencers Get Punched In the Face
When celebrities face off in the boxing ring, their number of Instagram followers or lucrative brand deals can’t help them — only fists prevail.
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A Soup for When You Just Want to Be Alone

A Soup for When You Just Want to Be Alone
This herby sweet-potato soup may be a bit modest, but it’s also the best company if you need to recharge.
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Tony Hawk Showed Me What’s Sacred About Cities

Tony Hawk Showed Me What’s Sacred About Cities
The games remind you of the endless possibilities that they possess, the antithesis of how we have sometimes been encouraged to approach them: with caution.
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Tuesday, October 10, 2023

Ours Is the Least Artistically Innovative Century in 500 Years

Ours Is the Least Artistically Innovative Century in 500 Years
A Times critic argues that 21st-century culture is likely to be forgotten. But it’s not as bad as it sounds.
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Monday, October 9, 2023

Her Strange Blisters Wouldn’t Go Away. What Was It?

Her Strange Blisters Wouldn’t Go Away. What Was It?
It started with a bout of dry, itchy skin. Soon everything hurt. A specialist found a way to find some relief.
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Is It Still Worth Going to the Movies?

Is It Still Worth Going to the Movies?
After 23 years of film criticism, I was back in front of the screen as a civilian. I had no idea what I would find.
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Sunday, October 8, 2023

Errol Morris Did Not Like This Q&A About His le Carré Film

Errol Morris Did Not Like This Q&A About His le Carré Film
A contentious discussion with the documentarian, whose new project is about the famous spy novelist.
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Friday, October 6, 2023

My Husband Is Facing Dementia. Can I Help Him End His Life?

My Husband Is Facing Dementia. Can I Help Him End His Life?
The magazine’s Ethicist columnist on how to assist a spouse in the midst of a life-or-death dilemma.
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Thursday, October 5, 2023

A Japanese Pancake That Wastes Nothing and Saves Everything

A Japanese Pancake That Wastes Nothing and Saves Everything
Okonomiyaki, special in its simplicity, can be a culinary home of your making.
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Judge John Hodgman on the Texts His Wife Doesn’t Appreciate

Judge John Hodgman on the Texts His Wife Doesn’t Appreciate
When a reminder about picking up a package is about more than a simple chore.
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Wednesday, October 4, 2023

Our Vacation Destination Has a Poor Human Rights Record. Should We Go?

Our Vacation Destination Has a Poor Human Rights Record. Should We Go?
The magazine’s Ethicist columnist on whether to travel to a country ruled by an oppressive regime.
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The Mystery of My Burning Esophagus

The Mystery of My Burning Esophagus
As a science writer, I’ve spent years covering the rise of allergic conditions. Why couldn’t I figure out my own?
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Tuesday, October 3, 2023

The Best Parts of Being a Football Fan Are Off the Field

The Best Parts of Being a Football Fan Are Off the Field
The N.F.L. season began with dramatic injuries. Luckily, for the league, we fans focus our energy on so many things besides the actual gameplay.
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Sunday, October 1, 2023

Consultants Boost College Applications. Is It Wrong to Use One for My Child?

Consultants Boost College Applications. Is It Wrong to Use One for My Child?
The New York Times Magazine’s Ethicist columnist on the kinds of extracurricular support parents owe their college-bound children.
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Why Can’t We Stop Unauthorized Immigration? Because It Works.

Why Can’t We Stop Unauthorized Immigration? Because It Works.
Our broken immigration system is still the best option for many migrants — and U.S. employers.
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Arnold Schwarzenegger Is Here to Pump You Up (Emotionally)

Arnold Schwarzenegger Is Here to Pump You Up (Emotionally)
“The more powerful you are,” says the action icon, author of a new self-help book, “the more power you have in giving back.”
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