Thursday, March 30, 2023

Judge John Hodgman on Office Candy Bowl Etiquette

Judge John Hodgman on Office Candy Bowl Etiquette
What punishment befits a coworker who unwraps Starbursts and throws back colors he doesn’t like?
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Wednesday, March 29, 2023

I’m an Underpaid Professor. Can I Do the Bare Minimum?

I’m an Underpaid Professor. Can I Do the Bare Minimum?
The magazine’s Ethicist columnist on whether workers have an obligation to go above and beyond.
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My Fundamentalist Parents Won’t Accept My Marriage. Should I Cut Ties?

My Fundamentalist Parents Won’t Accept My Marriage. Should I Cut Ties?
The magazine’s Ethicist columnist on whether a reader has obligations to homophobic family members.
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‘Abbott Elementary’ and the Joys of Living Outside the Main Edit

‘Abbott Elementary’ and the Joys of Living Outside the Main Edit
The sitcom has tweaked the mockumentary formula to teach an invaluable lesson about the value of life off-camera.
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Tuesday, March 28, 2023

The Unexpected Joys of a Quarantine Hotel

The Unexpected Joys of a Quarantine Hotel
138 hours in solitude turned out to be just the vacation this writer needed.
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Monday, March 27, 2023

Can the U.S. See the Truth About China?

Can the U.S. See the Truth About China?
The economist Keyu Jin argues that if it can’t, “peaceful coexistence may not be possible.”
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Thursday, March 23, 2023

A Journey Through Jamaica's Native Spiritual Landscape

A Journey Through Jamaica's Native Spiritual Landscape
Where Christianity and ancestral worship practices thrive.
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Poem: 88 Days

Poem: 88 Days
An awe-struck, awful, careening sensation of loss is held in place by the weight of language itself.
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Wednesday, March 22, 2023

My Son Is in Prison Again. What Do I Owe Him?

My Son Is in Prison Again. What Do I Owe Him?
The magazine’s Ethicist columnist on the obligations parents have to their adult children.
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The Best Biscuits Outside of the South

The Best Biscuits Outside of the South
These uniquely layered, pillowy biscuits get a caramelized crust from a bit of extra sugar.
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Tuesday, March 21, 2023

The Brilliant Inventor Who Made Two of History’s Biggest Mistakes

The Brilliant Inventor Who Made Two of History’s Biggest Mistakes
A century ago, Thomas Midgley Jr. was responsible for two phenomenally destructive innovations. What can we learn from them today?
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The Robots Can’t Take Taxi-Whistling Away From Me

The Robots Can’t Take Taxi-Whistling Away From Me
A relic of a pleasure in the face of relentless modernity.
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Monday, March 20, 2023

Your Data Is Diminishing Your Freedom

Your Data Is Diminishing Your Freedom
“We’re loading our lives into these systems and feeling we have no control of how these systems work,” warns the political theorist Colin Koopman.
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Friday, March 17, 2023

My Ex Refuses to Delete Images of My Father’s Corpse. What Can I Do?

My Ex Refuses to Delete Images of My Father’s Corpse. What Can I Do?
The magazine’s Ethicist columnist on a former partner’s keeping sensitive photos after a breakup.
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Thursday, March 16, 2023

Judge John Hodgman on Mom’s Military Time

Judge John Hodgman on Mom’s Military Time
A family has trouble syncing into a schedule on the 24-hour clock.
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Wednesday, March 15, 2023

I’m Worried My Neighbors Are Neglecting Their Child. What Should I Do?

I’m Worried My Neighbors Are Neglecting Their Child. What Should I Do?
The magazine’s Ethicist columnist on intervening in another family’s child-rearing.
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To Fall in Love With Cabbage, Do This

To Fall in Love With Cabbage, Do This
In Yotam Ottolenghi’s cabbage rolls with walnuts and sour cream, the dreaded vegetable becomes a star.
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Tuesday, March 14, 2023

‘I Live in Hell’: The Psychic Wounds of Ukraine’s Soldiers

‘I Live in Hell’: The Psychic Wounds of Ukraine’s Soldiers
Inside a psychiatric hospital in Kyiv, the mental trauma of the war is written on every soldier’s face.
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Poem: form

Poem: form
The unemployment form, with its insults and banalities, is an object of unhappy necessity. The poetic form, however, resists the other’s requirements.
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The Subversive Wisdom of ‘Old Wives’ Tales’

The Subversive Wisdom of ‘Old Wives’ Tales’
Women’s care has always depended on women’s sharing stories with one another.
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Friday, March 10, 2023

Our Granddaughter Is Rude and Ungrateful. What Can We Do?

Our Granddaughter Is Rude and Ungrateful. What Can We Do?
The magazine’s Ethicist columnist on failures to acknowledge financial generosity.
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Thursday, March 9, 2023

He Was Sweating Uncontrollably. Was It Male Menopause?

He Was Sweating Uncontrollably. Was It Male Menopause?
His vital signs were normal. He didn’t have a fever. A slew of tests couldn’t find the cause. Then a locker-room conversation between doctors led to the diagnosis.
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Wednesday, March 8, 2023

Our Family Keeps Bringing Their Dog Over. How Can We Stop Them?

Our Family Keeps Bringing Their Dog Over. How Can We Stop Them?
The magazine’s Ethicist columnist on how to tell loved ones that you don’t love their pet.
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The Comforting, Cheesy Charm of Chicken Doria

The Comforting, Cheesy Charm of Chicken Doria
This Japanese answer to a gratin conjures bliss with whatever is already on hand.
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Tuesday, March 7, 2023

Los Angeles Is a Fantastic Walking City. No, Really.

Los Angeles Is a Fantastic Walking City. No, Really.
A stroll down Rosecrans Avenue is not a pleasure. But it does offer a 27-mile canvas of the city’s vastness and its diverse communities coexisting.
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Monday, March 6, 2023

Paul Ryan Says Even MAGA Diehards Believe Trump Can’t Win in 2024

Paul Ryan Says Even MAGA Diehards Believe Trump Can’t Win in 2024
“The ace in the hole reason is that he’s unelectable,” says the former G.O.P. standard-bearer.
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Friday, March 3, 2023

The Quest to Restore Notre Dame’s Glorious Sound

The Quest to Restore Notre Dame’s Glorious Sound
In Paris, experts are modeling ways to revive the burned cathedral’s centuries-old acoustics. A Times interactive shows how space can affect what we hear.
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Can We Fire Our Employee? His Father Just Died.

Can We Fire Our Employee? His Father Just Died.
The magazine’s Ethicist columnist on what employers owe their workers.
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Thursday, March 2, 2023

Judge John Hodgman on Bagpipe School

Judge John Hodgman on Bagpipe School
Should a family be sentenced to a vacation at Gaelic College?
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Wednesday, March 1, 2023

Can I Use My Adopted Child’s DNA to Find His Biological Parents?

Can I Use My Adopted Child’s DNA to Find His Biological Parents?
The magazine’s Ethicist columnist on protecting a child’s medical privacy while helping them learn about their past.
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What Does Workplace TikTok Look Like During Layoffs? It Gets Weird.

What Does Workplace TikTok Look Like During Layoffs? It Gets Weird.
Tech and finance workers posted countless videos about the luxuries of their jobs — until the mood shifted.
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